tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post2683285177624899094..comments2024-03-29T00:31:51.931+00:00Comments on HyperCRYPTICal: It's Always You, You, You!hyperCRYPTICalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11967085628384237933noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-29589617679656886302022-09-20T13:42:54.584+01:002022-09-20T13:42:54.584+01:00Thanks for sharing useful information with us. If ...Thanks for sharing useful information with us. If you are finding the best <a href="https://nbsnc.org/" rel="nofollow">alcohol addiction treatment centre in Charlotte</a>. Visit New Beginning Sanctuary NC, which is a perfect place for drug and alcohol addiction treatment. We provide first-rate services to assist you or a loved one in beating alcohol addiction.New Beginning Sanctuary NChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17277242588518798752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-80480518521159820642012-12-20T07:41:10.097+00:002012-12-20T07:41:10.097+00:00Thank you for your welcome comments folks.
I have...Thank you for your welcome comments folks.<br /><br />I have more experience of families who live with other kinds of 'abuse' and I do wonder at times whether the blanket label of co-dependent is fair.<br /><br />Often other unchangeable factors are at play as to why families stay.<br /><br />Anna :o]hyperCRYPTICalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11967085628384237933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-73072040646336348702012-12-19T17:46:31.007+00:002012-12-19T17:46:31.007+00:00Wow, this so right on ... things can change though...Wow, this so right on ... things can change though ... as soon as she realizes that she is part of the problem ... by being there for him ... in what ever which way ... as long as she enables him, he will not stop drinking ... harsh reality, but only rock bottom/ tough love will make him stop. Great write.^.^https://www.blogger.com/profile/17422876955246850636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-80500949912111375992012-12-17T06:54:38.786+00:002012-12-17T06:54:38.786+00:00Very insightful and well done.Very insightful and well done.Madeleine Begun Kanehttp://www.madkane.com/humor_blog/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-46957653732166059242012-12-15T21:02:32.809+00:002012-12-15T21:02:32.809+00:00Hello!
I just would like to give a huge thumbs u...Hello! <br /><br />I just would like to give a huge thumbs up for the great info you have here on this post. I will be coming back to your blog for more soon.<br /><a href="http://www.manwithvanhireremovals.co.uk" rel="nofollow"><br />man and van Staines</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13934834530994616936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-66120248071462842322012-12-15T12:45:23.796+00:002012-12-15T12:45:23.796+00:00Very sad. Tough read. I often wonder why the wife ...Very sad. Tough read. I often wonder why the wife doesn't just leave. Then I realise she's caught in a cycle that she can't get out of. When something big forces the split, often she'll end up with another alcoholic/abusive partner. Than you for writing on these issues. I have little experience with this one and wouldn't touch it myself because of it. I admire you for doing soLuke Praterhttp://www.lukeprater.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-64614967627294036862012-12-15T09:36:38.164+00:002012-12-15T09:36:38.164+00:00A voice of self-pity that is almost unbearable to ...A voice of self-pity that is almost unbearable to hear. But admitting your own faults is the hardest of all. And deep witin you know that coming out of the addiction you will have a mountain of guilt to deal with. <br /><br />Thank you for your kind words on my blog. <br /><br />Björnbrudberghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12563403553536472377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-38671026746749182962012-12-15T01:38:57.306+00:002012-12-15T01:38:57.306+00:00Yes, the blame game is a common one of those with ...Yes, the blame game is a common one of those with addiction problems. I grew up in a household with an alcoholic and it was no fun...still feel the repercussions even after his death.<br /><br />And as you well know, it's the drink talking here. Close to home this one...Bodhirosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12630769135515322096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-32627526011307047712012-12-15T00:22:39.568+00:002012-12-15T00:22:39.568+00:00whew, this is a shocker! and very, very brilliant!...whew, this is a shocker! and very, very brilliant!<br />what a perspective you took... very provocative, real - and utterly fascinating.<br />i love this, Anna. great work!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-28143518492059412182012-12-14T18:16:42.206+00:002012-12-14T18:16:42.206+00:00Wow! You certainly captured the blaming behavior s...Wow! You certainly captured the blaming behavior so commonly exhibited by addicts, as well as the manipulative co-dependency their loved ones display. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12460881702249079009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-10682091550454952052012-12-14T17:02:16.959+00:002012-12-14T17:02:16.959+00:00a harsh bit of reality, seen too often... a well w...a harsh bit of reality, seen too often... a well written piece on a tough subjectAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-83563692022675484672012-12-14T15:15:40.968+00:002012-12-14T15:15:40.968+00:00Well this hits home, hard.
You know you are so ri...Well this hits home, hard. <br />You know you are so right, all the support is given to the addicted person once they ask for help and yet, so many family and friends are left floundering. <br />Powerful. Heartfelt too. Daydreamertoohttp://daydreamertoo.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-10789755637071518362012-12-14T15:11:52.234+00:002012-12-14T15:11:52.234+00:00It's what I call the "who left that chair...It's what I call the "who left that chair there?" syndrome. Blame someon else, the chair, anything. But don't take responsibility yourself. A good post.Frances Garroodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10614916006798375706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-37630407264825212452012-12-14T14:50:07.432+00:002012-12-14T14:50:07.432+00:00Chuckles! That tinge of humor is great, Anna! A se...Chuckles! That tinge of humor is great, Anna! A serious matter in a lighter mood. It takes talent to create one. Enjoyed it!<br /><br />Hankkaykualahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03240206222973305395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-57411181926027004552012-12-14T14:29:00.353+00:002012-12-14T14:29:00.353+00:00....what a universal scenario you've just stat.......what a universal scenario you've just stated here... anyone who drink too much really gets crazy and changes in attitude / behavior a lot... i've seen many lives ruined by alcohols and still couldn't figure it out what was in such that people are keep on patriotizing again and again... i think you write very effectively... and those repeated words add force and effects in your voice... excellent... smiles...kelvin s.m.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02591849636814413110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-22540957900410479262012-12-14T12:06:18.553+00:002012-12-14T12:06:18.553+00:00Thanks for the mention, Anna. So true, so true. xThanks for the mention, Anna. So true, so true. xADDYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01018958238940897902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-44460310136226776462012-12-14T05:19:13.439+00:002012-12-14T05:19:13.439+00:00ugh...this rang all too familiar as my father was ...ugh...this rang all too familiar as my father was drinking..and they always blame everyone else...tightly penned annaClaudiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03011763027311966186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-59206477885659620692012-12-14T04:25:03.511+00:002012-12-14T04:25:03.511+00:00Ouch, some harsh words. You captured this scene v...Ouch, some harsh words. You captured this scene very well, stark naked, honestly well. Very, very good!henry clemmonshttp://henryclemmons.wordpress.com/2012/12/13/the-look/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-83861775175793067142012-12-14T02:51:23.355+00:002012-12-14T02:51:23.355+00:00ugh...sad too the blame bouncing back and forth an...ugh...sad too the blame bouncing back and forth and trying to shift it as well...its hard...i have worked with alcoholics and addicts as well...you capture well the interactions....Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-54037734730804693612012-12-14T02:50:14.153+00:002012-12-14T02:50:14.153+00:00Anna, as Victoria said, this is good. I am so glad...Anna, as Victoria said, this is good. I am so glad that this is not your life...but you made the situation SO real. There is just so much here. I TRULY commend you for this write......Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07366010389846904663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-8977309109120873862012-12-14T02:39:10.915+00:002012-12-14T02:39:10.915+00:00This is a very good voice ~ I think we can blame ...This is a very good voice ~ I think we can blame everything else but ourselves.<br /><br />I always like it when you use your real life experience to draw your words ~ <br /><br /><br />Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02213172239590722747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3139696084392272622.post-74758294959965288792012-12-14T02:02:22.968+00:002012-12-14T02:02:22.968+00:00This is so good, Anna. I've worked with alcoho...This is so good, Anna. I've worked with alcoholics, too, and the tendency to blame others, especially their spouse, for their problems is so common. There is so much anger underlying this that it affects me on a visceral level. Well done.Victoriahttp://liv2write2day.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com